Sex Coaching
Tantric Massage
Erotic Therapy
Become more Capable, Confident, Connected & Powerful
Alter more than your sexual body.
Loving touch and authentic connection are essential for an inspired, powerful life. Yet in modern culture, men don’t often have the contexts, permission, or range of options to learn what they truly want, or how to create it with a lover.
You’re not alone. Many men have been hurt or confused by relationships, their desires, boundaries, communication styles, or sex itself. Maybe you’ve been taught you had to be a certain way in order to receive love and affection. Maybe you’re afraid to tell your partner what you want; or your body has changed and what turned you on in the past is not what arouses you now. Maybe you’re caught in cycles of stress, disconnect, getting by, shame, or loneliness. Maybe you want to learn new skills, or are just single and busy.
My work is grounded in a therapeutic relationship between you and me, created in-real-time, with the intention of growing your capacities in sexual skills and energetics, emotional intelligence, communication, and embodiment. We blend conversation with on-the-spot guidance, intimate experiences, and practical exercises — all in a non-judgmental, loving space without the burden of having to caretake me, or wonder what I’m thinking.
Learn how to escalate a sexual encounter, with confidence and consent.
Learn how to synch-up with a partner instantly & naturally.
Relax into the safety of affection, nurturance, and feminine touch without pressure to perform.
Unlock and explore your deepest desires
Master your relational habits
Heal unresolved wounds, traumas, or mistrust
Identify & navigate conflict & repair
My work is for you if you want to…
Experience a loving, bubbly, witchy, feminine woman
Improve your sexual skills
Integrate your darkness and light
Repair relational conflicts
Heal intimacy wounds
Master how your words, presence, and touch effect others
“Who do you work with?”
I work 1:1 with men, generally 25+ years old, of any race, religion, relationship configuration, or sexual orientation, who seek to deepen their connection to their bodies, hearts and sexual energy through the somatic experience of pleasure, attunement, and presence, transforming trauma and shame into embodied presence and power, uncovering self-love, and a deeper, more radiant intimate life in themselves and their relationships.
Men in high-stress professions
Those with physical traumas or traumatic medical experiences
Those wanting to learn more about their bodies, desires & skills
Men longing for rest, rejuvenation, and a trusted, confidential place to let their guard down
Men single, widowed, or in between relationships
It’s all possible
My work is not just about giving you an “experience.” It’s about helping you build habits and confidence for the rest of your life. You get the tools, knowledge, and practice to connect, show up more fully — and yes, have mind-blowing sex with your partner/s.
Intimacy.. & everything else
I am a big believer that how we touch and communicate is how we do the rest of our life. My work is through the gateway of intimacy — yet the education and healing you receive map directly onto the rest of your life.
What happens to your ability to make decisions or stay engaged, when you feel ashamed, unsure, unmet, or bored? What happens to your work, creativity, and relationships when what you want in your body is unspoken, or you’ve lost passion?
Now imagine what’s possible when your body, desires, and needs are clear, spoken, and getting met; when your yes’s and no’s are aligned, and surging with life, ready to take on what’s in front of you?
Build emotional stamina and resilience
Learn invisible emotional-release tools to use in-the-moment
Benefits of Sexual Mentorship
Short-term Benefits
faster and deeper capacity for connection
increased confidence
increased optimism & joy
reduced physical pain
Long-term Benefits
improved sleep
improved emotional stability & critical thinking in the face of overwhelm
increased self-awareness
increased energy
deeper trust in yourself and others
Trauma & waking up now
The truth is, what we call trauma is a natural, normal, and sane response by the body and mind, to an insane experience.
And I’m here to help you make sense of those experiences – so they don’t block you from the life and connections you want.
No matter what your past holds, you deserve to and can create a life that is playful, confident, and as wild as you want it to be.
I weave my training in tantric touch, embodiment practices, meditation, emotional release, and nervous system regulation, to support you in discovering and claiming your most powerful and connected self – at your pace, boundaries, and without re-traumatizing.
Offer a loving “no” in the face of disappointing a loved one
Be seen & touched at your pace
Heal, strengthen, and let your inner child come out to play!
What do I get with Exquisite Arrow?
Increase sexual skills & pleasure
Explore your limits
Reinhabit your body after trauma
Decrease chronic pain, anxiety, depression, and PTS symptoms
Religious deconstruction
What else can I explore?
“Low desire” – *it is not what you think!*
One-sided / lack of affection in relationship
Spiritual expansion
Grief & loss
Fantasies!
Heal assaults or harm
Body changes — from aging to traumas
